To be different....

I was at work today, and in the evening shift while preparing some mise-en-place, some of my colleagues were talking about girls, hot chics....So i was there, and they were talking away bout this gal in my college(not of the part-timer there is from my college) a vietnamese girl who is chun and hot and sexy...

Then....*takes a deep breathe* they pop me a question, -james, do you have a girlfriend?- *translated*...and i said no...and they can't believe it...and they ask another question -james, have u done it before?- and i said no...they went, -sure anot? tak percaya la- haha...and i went boldly and said, no i have not done it before and i'm still a virgin...

Now what came next makes me laugh and wonder...they went on saying, -how can, (babling bout when they did it) some girls say it is better to have a guy who has experience- .. ahemm, mic test. Well i'm not that some guy, who is so desperate to go for the some girl?!! What's wrong being a virgin? What's so wrong not having sex before marriage....i'm saving it for the best wei...

I believe that what God has given to me, that priceless possesion must be reserve for that one and best person in my life...and vise versa.

Don't get me wrong, i'm not condemning them nor am i saying that sex is a wrong thing. Sex by nature is holy and blessed, it is created by God as a gift to men...but i guess the world has really perverted the treasures of God, and turn it into something that is filthy and bad...still there are people who believe that sex is a gift from God, and it is sacred.

Heck, i don't wanna just go with any one...i don't want STDs man, its better safe than sorry, prevention is better(so much better) than cure....