"Well you just have to wait till its the right time to have a girlfriend" this is just one of those many advices people would give when u ask them for advice on a relationship. But when is the right time? I have always wondered!
Which is more promising? To take the risk and approach that person you are interested or to wait until the time is right? sometimes waiting seems to be meaningless and waste of time, i mean if u say u will wait, but then u do nothing in that process of waiting, what then? Soemtimes that girl/guy might seem like the right one for you, and u feel so sure about this one, but there is one problem, the opposite party thinks other wise, or they don't think about it at all.
So when is the right time or the right steps? well if u are reading this, u would probably be asking, "hmm, james has someone in mind?" Well..the answer is yes i do have someone on mind and this is just part of the delimma that i'm facing..darn..
Tuesday, June 06, 2006
Right time?
Posted by J-mes at 11:31 AM
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That question is impossible to answer by anyone. Right timing, it's just not literally, but the concept I suppose. I'm sure one of your parents didn't think it was the right timing to be dating, but rather did it because they wanted to? Well, I'm not sure, but for me, I think that was the way for my parents in a way.
If you like someone, tell them you like them. Of course during the right atmosphere at the right place and righ time (time as in when you're confident). Then if it doesn't work out with the other side, well, then it doesn't work out. That's as blunt as I would get, because any more, people might think I'm mean, which I can be, but I'm not.
For me, it's never the right time and will not be for a while. I've come to understand myself more when I like a girl, but I still find it difficult or not the right "time" to date, so I leave myself alone. For me, I can live a single life easily right now, so there really isn't a problem. For some, it might be a little more difficult. Sometimes, you have to go get what you want, because you never know, until you try. ^_^
well I know who you are talking about..but James ah.. both of us know..when we say we wait till the time is right..the more we think about it, the more impatient we are to tell the opposition. so james...my only advice to you..wait.. you WILL know when is the right time.. and when is NOT the right time..intuation? feelings? rational? yes..all this will lead you in finding what is the right time..
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